Saturday, October 02, 2004

What is a friend to you?

I suddenly though about this just now. What is a friend to you? Some may think that "Friends should be together all the time", or "Friends share the same interests", or "Friends are always on your side", or "Friends are those whom you go to when you need help and comfort". So, what is a friend to you? I am not telling you my answer coz you may copy it :P Hahaha...

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

friends are very important to me and they are categorized as follows:

1st degree fren:
someone who is very close to u and knows u very much. someone u would talk to when u hav problems and u would also always be the one to lend your ears to when he/she has troubles. you are considered lucky to hav one fren in this category in ur life. as a chinese saying goes like this, hav a true fren in ur life and u'd never regret living.

2nd degree fren:
those who are also close to you but there are certain reasons for that. such as ur classmates, roomates, schoolmates and etc. u can develop good relationship with them but in a matter of time, they'd be out of ur circle of life, some in touch and some only left in ur memories.

3rd degree fren:
i would like to call them, "hello" frens. y? because u dun even remember their names if u meet them in the street.

how many frens do u hav in each category??

koyi said...

Hey, you know you are the first one to have posted a comment in my blog! Thanks.

Well, I think I am surrounded by many 1st degree friends, but just that I don't know how to appreciate them and open my heart to them. And that turns them into the 2nd degrees one.

3rd degree friends? Lost count... :P

Perhaps this is the way to test who are your true friends:
Try to stop seeing them for a while, a year or two, and then get back to them, if you can become just as friendly and as close as the time you left them, they are your true friends :)
Of course you leave them for a reason(study, work, etc.), I never asked you to leave them for this stupid experiment! :P